I am a minister and we have experienced several failed adoptions and have had very little positive support. Most people just don't know what to say and the church isn't prepared for such loss. You only get general grief counseling. Can any of you share any experiences of a failed adoption in the form of feelings, lack of support, stupid things said, support you wish you had (public or church) etc... I want to create some support material and there is very little research on the subject and I figured the best way is to hear it from people such as yourself, please help.
