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Honesty is the best policy...
If a birthmom doesnt believe in your husbands career to the point that it would affect whether she chooses you or not, then it is better to know sooner than later. The most important thing is that you and the birthmom(or birthparents) are a good match for the sake of the child. If that means that someone passes by your profile, then you should know that it was enough of a conflict of interest to cause problems. And therefore, it was not meant to be with that person. Both side deserve to know honest details when choosing parents...and also when accepting parental responsibility. I do agree that perhaps you could edit it by saying exactly what you posted...that he was called to duty and is not in danger of being recalled and is retiring....but this is just info about you...it shouldn't be a technique to keep bmoms from not choosing you......but information offered to show the bmom who you guys are!!!!
Good Luck!
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