[Lynard1210]

Thank you for posting the emotional roller coaster you went through. I'm an amom and am considering an open adoption with the birth father who has suddenly shown interest post-adoption and i am trying to figure out what he must be going through, since he seems to waver in different directions. He recently sent a gift to our daughter and it was exciting and scary at the same time. We are taking the plunge and are going to welcome him into our lives, but I have been wondering what he has been going through emotionally. This has been very helpful. I hope you find your daughter.