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Been Through It
Been there done that..
My husband said yes and all was okay for a bit. Then he got quiet
and withdrawn..I could tell he was questioning his yes.
And then he said no... He couldnt ....
And I cried and cried.. I seem to shrink.. It was like you said a miscarriage. He watched me be sad, thinking I was becoming depressed. Not so I was sad and grieving but not depressed.
Some time(only weeks) of seeing how important VITAL this was for me.. He started asking questions. and Listening...
And then he said yes again.. It took me weeks to trust it.
Just this past Sunday at church I was holding a friends baby and my husband was talking to her daddy about us adopting.
Let him read this post. Maybe?
I told my husband that I would be sad over this for the rest of my life... I didnt mean everyday or all the time.. But I think he thought I did.
wishing you the best
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May you have hope, keep faith, know peace, trust God, and know that Your Loved.
Friends Always
Donna
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