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DValentine, please understand that you do not have to make any decision now. Also (i am an amom), you have no responsibility to the potential a parents and (I know how hard it is as a caring person) that should NOT be a factor in your decision to place or not.

I can say that (even if it is hard), if you can "communicate" somehow to the a parents that you are not sure and that you are "leaning" towards parenting, that may make it "easier" for them.

DD's birth mom was extremely adamant in her decision to place....she was even "mad" when DH had not bought me a mother's day gift while SHE was expecting. I always told her that her child was not my child until she said so and signed the papers to say so. And I know to this day how hard it was for her to do that...

Anyway, big hugs to you and follow your heart...also, if you can talk to someone (a therapist, etc.), I would strongly encourage you to do so. Good luck!