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MSRed had a good idea there I think. It explains the fact that baby lived somewhere else for a couple of months, yet doesn't focus on any negativity for his being adopted elsewhere. Luckily it was a very short timespan in his life. I would let it go as something along that line too, a foster parent that took care of him for a couple of months before he was placed with you guys. Sounds loving enough and easier to cope with without him someday thinking he was this horrible kid that a couple couldn't handle or bond with, you know? Best of luck!
I was reading the forum with interest because the LifeBook that I got from MARE is a good base to use I think, yet not really geared for those of us who adopt within our family (a granddaughter) so I've been trying to figure out some other ideas of how to handle it.
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