Thankyou Stephanies Mom...
I am so glad that there are people (b-mom's ) like you that want to share.. It's almost like her voice of reasoning for me..
My b-mom is no longer alive, but can talk through all of your words.. I hear your pain, and reasoning, and can analyze things and try to put things in perspective.. I am trying.
Your right.. there are no road maps for this..
Thanks!
Susie
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