locality survey
1st a quick update on how my family is growing...LS and I are spending so much time together, I have to keep pinching myself...it just doesn't seem like I did anything to deserve such a gift, but that's what God's grace is all about, isn't it? We IM at least every other day...and we see each other almost once a week or more...I'm so friggen happy!
Also, she and I have devised a plan to get her and my son to spend some quality one on one time together to see if that will help him to feel more comfortable with the whole thing. She is going to drive him home from school one day a week. They are going to stop for lite meal and hopefully chat it up a bit, get to know each other without my influence...When I told him I had an appointment and she would get him home, he just shrugged and said OK...no protest, not freak out...fingers crossed, silent prayer, wish us luck!
So, on to my survey...just wondering what part the geographical locality of reunited families has on the BIG LOVE...Does it make things easier/harder or not much affect at all? LS and I are only 15 minutes apart...so we have a lot in common concerning local hang-outs and venues and shopping and such...(we've even wondered out loud how many times we were in the same place at the same time without knowing it!)
I think being so close, geographically, gives us a greater opportunity to be really casual when we get together. There's no urgency to our visits...it's like, we've got all the time in the world to muddle thru the details...Although, we've shared soooo much already. Also, we were able, in the beginning, to meet on neutral ground, at locations we were both familiar with...
Just wondered how others reunions were affected by this...
LSM
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