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My advice would be to send birth mom a letter explaining that you wish to try and have a relationship with birth sister. Let her know that you want to give her the chance to talk to her daughter first but if she isn't willing to do that then you will contact her yourself. Doing it this way shows birth sister that you aren't trying to cause heartache in the family and that you did give birth mom the option of being honest with her daughter first before making contact on your own.
Best of luck!
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[/color][/b]Michelle
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"I have learned that people won't remember what you said to them, they won't remember what you did to them, but they will always remember how you made them feel"
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