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I would just say, read everything written above and I quadruple it. My son is 19, and I cannot tell you the 19 years of lost hopes, lost dreams, and lost wishes I have. Some of the things you cannot even imagine when you are looking at that baby are so much harder when you are faced with an 18 year old that you surrendered, or at least that was how it was in my case. I urge you to tell your mom to do some of the research that you are doing. Learn from the ones who say, "if I knew then what I know now." And if she doesn't get on board, well, then I've got to say she will have to get over it, you are 22 and you have a child to raise. Good luck finding the assitance to help you do that. Best wishes!
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