Hello Marybeth
I relinquished my bson in Florida and he was in Washington state when he found me.. And I was/am in Canada.. who knows where your birthmom is..
There are many places you can search..
Adoption Registry - Records, Reunion Registries, Adoptees, Search Reunite
http://www.plumsite.com/isrr/
TxCARE™ Home
My bson found me on a Florida search site.. it was the one common state that we had..
It was the first place he looked..
Jackie