I have been wrestling with the idea lately if it is morally wrong to "pullback" permanently from one's birthfamily once you have entered each other's lives.
By pullback, I mean cutting them completely out of your life. (Now I'm not including this to mean with individuals who are dangerous or abusive in some way - regular people with their good/annoying traits).
Please understand I am truly pondering this. I don't have a set opinion. I have tried to imagine myself totally cutting out any of my relatives because the rela
tionship is challenging. I can't imagine this. I have also wondered if it is cruel to enter then exit your birthfamilies' lives. It seems that some sort of contact, even minimal, could be possible. Relationships involve commitment, especially during tough times...
This is a difficult post for me to make. I do not want to offend anyone. I am trying to get my mind around this wonderful process of reunion. My ponderings above are truly just that...I welcome any thoughts!