Hi there
I just joined up in this forum and read your post and can only speak from an adoptees perspective. I found my b-mum 3 months ago, it has been an amazing experience but also a very emotional time for me (and her I suspect too) There have been times when i have been so confused that I didn't know if I wanted to stay in contact or not. She has been brilliant, told me she will give me all the space I need, even if it means not being in contact for however long i need. I have considered having a break for a while in order to sort out the whirlwind of feelings that I am experiencing but at the moment its not what I feel I need to do. I can fully understand why adoptees feel the need to do it, to cut ties for a while as finding your b-parents can totally take over your life and everything else falls by the wayside and its very hard to get things in perspective . Please don't think this is the end, he may just need time, be it 3 months be it 2 years. I still have alot of trouble getting my head around the whole concept of having another family and i bet he is too. Keep smiling
