[zempagirl]

I think it depends on the age of your child. We are in an open adoption and have put together a lifebook with his story. We also see his bmom on a regular basis so he recognizes her . He is only 15 months, but the lifebook is something I can show him with pictures and practice reading to him. We have everything in there from our profile, letters that we sent his bmom, and his story from the hospital, to what is adoption, and who his bmom is. Of course it is written in little kids terms right now, but as he gets older I will include more details. Hope that helps!