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Well you would have to prove that she is an unfit mother, or that she has abandoned her children. If she is filing with the courts for more visitation/custody, then proving abandonment would be next to impossible, as she is actively involved with seeking more time with them.
Proving that she is an unfit parent, is not going to be a walk in the park, to say the least. You need to present evidence that shows the courts without a doubt that the children would be in danger while in her care. The easiest way to preform a stepparent adoption is when both sides agree to the adoption, fighting to have one done is a long and costly battle.
If her pattern is to get involved with the children, only to disappear once again, perhaps your best bet is just to wait, let her get her fill and disappear, and then file for an adoption after she has had no contact with the kids for at least a year.
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