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Wow, I could have written your original post. That is exactly the way I feel, especially today. I looked around & found a singles support group that deals with emotional issues... not just any specific subject. I think it will help me.
As for your friends, I know, they just don't get it. But then you have to realize that it's a part of life to out-grow other people. They seem to be going in one direction while you're going in another. It's perfectly normal to grieve the loss of your friends, especially since they seem to be dropping off one by one. I imagine your friend who told you that hurt your feelings but at least she respected you enough to tell you face to face instead of walking away & talking trash behind your back. She might not be able to understand, but she might be a good friend in other areas in your life.
BTW - I hate dating. It just seems that most men I talk to pursue too aggressively & it makes me run. I can't just enjoy going out with them because I feel as if I have to constatly pull the reigns. Then they make me the bad guy. What a mess. This is why I have cats. They make me mad, I shoot them with a watergun, all is well. I wish things were always that simple.
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