[Linny]

Oh come on, Mix and Match......those were cruel words to say!
After all, the forum is called, 'Adoption tax credit'....and this is supposed to be one safe place for people to try to figure this stuff out!
I'm sorry, but if you were to read posts from some adoptive couples who finance everything they have, who borrow up to their 'eyebrows' in order to afford the adoption of a child to love, you wouldn't have said such mean-spirited things..........
People are just trying to understand a confusing issue about adoption costs. I don't like 'talking' about money either......you are right....there IS a child involved....but there is also the issue of costs, ....and costs, like it or not, are a very real part of adoption.

Linny