[dac_cincy]

If your boyfriend does not live in your home- there is not reason that the homestudy agency should ask for an interview with him. That would akin to them asking for interviews with other close relatives- which they don't do unless the relative lives in the home the child will live.
if your boyfriend might be a daycare/babysitter option and you are considering adopting from teh foster care system- then your boyfirend would have to submit the care for a background check just as your other relatives woudl do (at least in my state).

Your social worker will ask about your relationship but that should be the extend of the questioning.

I hope this helps.

Love to you,
Deb