I need some advice
The aparents (family) of two of my children are using the rest of the family and myself as punishment for bad behavior. The next time we see them is Christmas (Dec 30th for us) and I am going to try and keep things civil. I know I can do it because it has been so long since I have seen them they will be all I can think about the rest may not. My problem is how do I explain that using family as a behavior bargaining chip is WRONG without making their aparents feel attacked ??? I mean that is what child molesters do to kids! It should never be done by someone who loves a child (or anyone else but...) how do I point out what they are doing gently? ANY HELP IS NEEDED AND APPRECIATED!
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