[zempagirl]

What I hate is when people say do you still let the bmom see your son. I say we get along and we love seeing her and people just look at me weird or say I couldn't imagine seeing her and having that arrangement. I say I guess you would have to be in my shoes and know her to understand. I think people have misconceptions of domestic adoptions from the 20/20 or Dateline shows that show the negative aspects of adoption. I think education about adoptions are needed. In all cases I try to educate others and tell them all the aspects of what our adoption has been.