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So we just throw away a 6 year old child? Who has a chance to heal? No one is saying not to protect them...just saying look at the whole picture and possibility. It might be the right choice to split this group. But a 6 year old....that's a big factor here, imo/

What I hear you saying is no matter what, you toss the child out. Or is this just for kids being adopted from the system? If a bio family has 3 kids and they discover that their 6 year old is fondling their 3 year old, they just toss him out the door? Is that what you are saying?

I'm not saying don't protect your kids...but I do believe that also means protecting ALL of them...