[Jackiejdajda]

Husbands..

Stand up for yourself.. this is a most important time in your life.. and if your husband is having problems these IMO are his problems..
Something he needs to sort..

I had to put my family first when I relinquished.. I did my best to not get a resentment when I re-united..
Stand your ground.. tell him.. Tell him about your feelings around his reaction..

And maybe let things go when the going gets tough.. none of us are perfect.. and this is a big issue.. situation..

But you are a person of the first order and what you are going through counts.. I think some of us pick a mate soon after relinquishing.. and we pick a mate that has the same qualities.. or lack of them.. as our parents..
It’s the same old same old fight.. or situation..

We are given situations in life.. I believe.. in order to sort them..

Its all lessons..