[Jenngv]

Last year we adopted from my sister in law. And last year for christmas she bought something for her and she did not buy for my other daughter. Me and my husband talked and we did not let her give it to her because i don't want my older daughter to pick up on it. My older daughter knows her sister is adopted but she doesn't know who the birthmom is. We told her that if she bought my other daughter something that we would let her. But she didn't feel like she had to. Which is fine but i just wanted it to be fair. Am i wrong for this? And what should i said if she trys to do it again? Please i need some advice. Thank you!!!!!