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I so relate to your your feelings about bringing in bdad mocking bird...esp if he still unstable, but I think it is a must. This is not about us and how we feel, ( I guess it never was eh?), its about doing the best for our children.
My bdaughter met her bdad a year ago, her and I have nearly known each other for 11yrs.
Last month I had to sit beside him for three days at a huge sporting event to watch her play. OMG it was hard work. I just wanted him to go away. But as i said to amum, who had to sit by her estranged husband for the first time in 6yrs..." The things we do for love"
Us birthmums gave birth to these children. We carried them for 9months and nurtured them in our wombs. We sufferred the pain of delivery and loss first hand. Our breasts filled with milk for a child that was not there and we bled! It is natural we feel this way...hell I have tears running down my face as I write this!!!!!
Your son does need to know!
Susie
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