[seekfirstthekingdom]

I really do, I could never take in children that were that emotionally disturbed, I dont agree with leaving a 9 year old alone, never will.

I had 2 boys that came to my home with behavioral problems, anger issues, violent rages, I agreed to take them under false pretenses, the worker made them sound like angels.
when I felt that I could no longer handle them I put my 2 weeks notice in, I am weak, I could not follow thru with what you did and they needed someone who would and they did go to a therapeutic home.

I am saying all of this because just because I dont agree with you doesn't mean anything, you are the parent I am just a bystander who does not understand.

I have also ran over bikes that were left behind the vehicles, I have thrown toys away that were left out after the kids were told to put them away, I do get that sometimes you have to play mean to get the bahaviors that are more desireable, I dont get leaving a child at home alone....