Tammie,
Don't worry so much about what "negative" others may
say. Adoption is a highly charged subject and if someone has had
a bad day, they may have strong words on particular matters.
I don't know your situation but, don't let "anyone" tell you who
you are, or how you should feel. After all, noone suffers the
consequences of your decisions but, you. Keep your chin up,
hun.
Love, Diane M. (hayleysmom)