[randloar]

Had to jump in here........no, you are not delusional, as long as you do your best mentally to prepare for what lies ahead. Everyone will question you and tell you not to do it, but my reaction is that its your family not theirs, so if you think you can do it, you should.

We 'only' came home with two at once earlier this year and are finally starting to feel a bit settled in. Our youngest was 14 months, and the second was 2.75 years, so younger than you are anticipating, but it was a struggle at first to learn how to be a mama to both at once. They really fought hard to get my undivided attention and are finally starting to allow the other to get some one-on-one snuggle time with me without jumping into the mix (we do all at once too, but need the separate time as well!). We tried to be prepared for those types of things but were not fully prepared for just how hard it would be to make them both 'happy' at once!!!

So, if we were to do it all over again, we would, but would communicate more with those who had been there and done that to learn some shortcuts to try to help with some of the bumps along the way!