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Originally Posted by sweetpea012607
Sorry it's been so long since my last reply. My net went down. The reasone my a-mom thinks she isn't nice is because she told me that there would be drinking at my b-sister's wedding and that they couldn't and wouldn't change it.
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I know lots of Baptists who don't drink who still go to weddings where there is drinking. I do not understand how this is being mean or treating you badly. You might want to point out that Jesus himself changed water into wine at a wedding feast when the wine ran out. Does she rewally think that it is Christian to boycott a wedding of a loved one because there is going to be alcohol? I don't think Jesus would agree.
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Originally Posted by sweetpea012607
Both of my a-parents are disabled and stopped drawing disability the day I turned 18. So there's not much I can do to change things.
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Are you in the US? It sounds as if they were receiving TANF funds, that is aid to families with dependant children. Their disability payments should not have anything to do with your becoming independant. I would get a good Social Security lawyer. I hate to say this, but your parents need to be in a place where they can live off their disability payments. Do they expect you to support them for the rest of their lives?
I don't mean to sound harsh, but it sounds to me as if it is your a-parents that are the real ones taking advantage of you here.