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Old 12-08-2007, 08:09 PM
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Sweetpea,
How are you doing?

When I found D, his amom tried to be very supportive, but both D and I could tell she was having a lot of difficulty with the reunion (and D was 32). Over the past 2 years I think she has become much more comfortable with my presence in D's life. I've made it as clear as I can that I don't see myself taking over her place in D's life. I know that D's has kept his parents apprised of what's happening with us. I had a long talk with D's amom today - she and D's adad have been watching the older children while D & J are at the hospital with baby A.

I guess what I'm saying is that you may need simply to give the relationship and your mom time to kbecome more comfortable.
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