[Jackiejdajda]

I initiated contact through Friends re-united by asking a cryptic question only she would comprehend but the reply I received came from one of her sons stating he didn't understand and wanted further clues(I'm not sure if she even knows about her FR posting). I haven't replied but have since received further emails in her name offering incorrect information that i am 90% sure are from the son.

Secrets just keep on giving..

I say go to your birthmom direct.. and don't allow all this twisting to go on..

I realise I have opened a can of worms but at the moment I'm very uncomfortable with making contact while we live so close by, especially if she doesnt want to be in contact it may make her very uncomfortable knowing I am just around the corner. I am again making the presumption she hasn't told her husband or children about me.

For years I did not tell my second born daughter and third born son..
That is why I think it is best to just speak to or correspond with your birthmom.. a registered letter to her home or something like that..

Most of all I would like her to know that I am fine and have had a good and interesting life so far.

I'd be very grateful if anyone has any advice i.e should I send a letter giving a little info with an email address and no geographical info ?

Again.. I think it best if you go directly to her.. and emails on the net go astray and can end up in never never land.. it happened between myself and my bson..

I nice letter telling her that you are searching.. and you age and info is the way to go IMO.

Jackie