[zempagirl]

I am seeking advice as our birthmom has told us that she having another baby in May. Our son just turned 14 months and I am wondering if anyone has had this experience in an open adoption with your birthmom having 2 children close in age. She is with the father and they are planning on keeping this baby. I know her circumstances this time around are very different. What and how would you try to start explaining this to your child. Right away since he won't even be 2 when the baby is born. Do I identify the baby as his brother or sister? Any advise on this matter would very much appreaciated.

Thanks
Deb