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first of all she is allowed to take the baby home if she wants. the baby is still hers legally. she shouldnt have to budge on her wants in the adoption.
If you dont feel comfortable in her wants in the adoption you really should back out if you dont you will more than likely regret it maybe not now but someday. You shouldnt have to budge on your wants in the adoption either. you really should match with a birthmom who wants what you want in the adoption.
I will be a birthmom myself and I wouldnt match with someone who doesnt want what i want. visits is a reasonable request.
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