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You might get more responses by posting in the "foster care and adoption" forum. Although some of them just foster, many also adopt, and either way, they may have better insight on how to integrate the new older siblings with the established younger ones.
They also have good insight on parenting children with traumatic backgrounds, attachment problems, and other issues that may apply to your situation.
Good luck!
- Juliana
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Mom to J, age 6  and M, age 3 
Waiting and praying for child #3...
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