I am an adult adoptee (almost 44) who's been searching for her birthparents since I can remember. 15 years ago I was diagnosed with Lupus and my condition has now become life threatening. I could sure use some type of medical history for my 3 children as well a my self, since my condition has worsened and I'm facing the removal of a kidney and have serious heart issues due to Lupus.
I must admit, also want to know who they are and what they look like, but I'm expect nothing more than a medical history of some kind. It seems however from all of my searching online, that they do not want to be found
I posted my adoptee profile here in 2002:
, Barbara Olson, 12-13-1963, Illinois, Lutheran Social Services, 12-02-1964, ILBarbara Olson, 12-13
And that is all of the information I have been given. My Adoptive parents passed away over 7 years ago. Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I really do not want to die with this emptiness nor with an empty medical history for my children and theirs to come.
Blessings,
Lilly