wow
So you all are telling me when I mailed the pink and blue in the info (little tiny there was) might not be all there is there..for 1, and there is someone else there besides mary h? and 2--even though the Lutheran office here told me I wasn't entitled to non-id, I am? I thought all sides of the adoption triad were entitled in IN...and to more than just a bdate (which i swear can be changed) and weight, length etc...The only peice of info I got back then was that the parents were born in IN---but if it is coming off the original like Mary's email said--that would be me--and I wasn't!!
I am going to call FT Wayne myself--have to wait until Monday now i am sure! I am also going to refile my forms I think---maybe I will get something more?? I just don't want to waste their time--but I have only filed once (7yrs ago)--and sent my new addy through email to MH once--then the emails a few weeks ago--no response until yesterday though.
I just asked for non-id...I want to know their occupations, and simple stuff even Michigan gives out...I did ask if I gave them a name could they confirm or deny---I even asked mary h the same question...she ignored it!
Just a little note...my adoption was through Indiana (myself) I was adopted by my step dad when I was 5...they screwed up my "original bc" (looks real) by saying my dad was one age--when he was actually much younger! I just caught that this year--he is 60 now--and would have been 20 when I was born! they had him 24 or 25 on my bc, lol. My adoption was handled in IN, but my BC came from CO where I was born.
OH--and should I follow any certain call script when I call FT Wayne--the lady in the Griffith office sounded purturbed with me! She couldn't believe I wanted info is the feeling I got, and very protective...I asked for FT Wayne's # she told me no--that she would call! maybe she's blown it for me already--who know's....But she never called me back! Instead I suddenly got an email back from Mary H instead---could be connected....
1 more question---they have to petition for non-id? Just for a CI right? (that's what I always thought anyhow)
Thanks everyone!!!
Happy Thanksgiving!!!
Alison
ISO Bson 7/27/82 Munster, IN munster Community Hospital DR Luna, Lutheran child fam services just found out adoption was finalized in Marion County...this I found a match--all the info matches except the bdate--everything else matches (I think) and I still am waiting to get a email back on the finalization county.
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