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Any and all lies or ommisions of truth in an adoption is wrong and if the truth is not disclosed the adoptee ends up suffering. Trust me on that! It was done to me and to this day will carry that violation and betryal to my death bed. If I didn't have such a strong faith in God I would have lost my mind when I found out the truth. I was never lied to about actually being adopted, I was lieed to about the fact that my Amom's sister was my Biomom. I was close enough to this woman who I belived was my aunt that she could have told me. I was very close to Amom and I never beilieved either one would ever betray and decieve me in such a way. You did the right thing by telling her.
Aparents sometimes don't realize how important the truth is to an adoptee. Adoptees have a right to know who they are. It IS selfish to lie.
EZ
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