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Originally Posted by BrockBaby
Yes janny it does go both ways. (I was just being "one sided" because I was replying to cnb)
Glad that you are finding support here though, we are all in this together so to speak!
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Hi Brockbaby,
sorry if my post came across as perhaps implying that you were "one sided" . I didn't mean to convey that impression at all, but I was just posting in case adoptees wondered if bmom's ever feel the same? When I read posts and realise that others in the triad are experiencing the same, it helps, it really helps that its just not me. As you say and I wholeheartedly agree, we are all in this together and I was just trying to add my 5 cents worth! Sorry if I gave the wrong impression!!
(My feelings seem pretty raw and strong at the minute, I don't know if other bmom's go through this - I'm 19 months into reunion and yet my feelings seem volcanic at times. Is it anger? Frustration? Reunion I think is frustrating for all concerned, but I
apologise in advance for the strength of my emotions. I just want to get in the car and drive up and see my son!!!! aghhhhh... but I can't, I have to suppress so much, I think thats why I'm like a coiled spring.....).