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Special...I just read your posts and I am glad that YOU are doing better despite what your bmom might be doing. I think reunions are very "interesting" in the fact that you have two adults, who both can go back and forth between the adults they are now and the baby or teenager/young adult that they were at the time of the birth. I know that I have done that at times, thinking I am an adult, so why am I having these childish feelings?!?!? There comes a point in time though, that a person has to realize that they are no longer that child/teen, and at that realization, they need to decide WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE!?!?! We, as adoptees and bparents, can NEVER get back that lost time, but we don't have to lose any more time TRYING to go back to that time, or going back there emotionally...does that make sense!??!!? Your post just brought a lot of this up in me, making me think if I too react according to my "baby self"....thanks for the thinking material!!!
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