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Your replies have helped tremendously. Some people have made me feel like I'm so lucky to have this opportunity and I'd be crazy not to take it. You all have made me feel like I do have a choice.
I will speak to her about the visits and my feelings. Yes, it's lack of transportation that we must go to her but we're going to see what we can do about that.
As for the other parts...she wants to take the baby home for a few weeks after birth. The other things she wants are reasonable (pictures, phone calls).
Marfey, thank you for your advice...it's exactly what I'm worried about, the child.
Yes, I have an attorney and we are trying to get the birthmom to hire one for herself. The problem is she arranged for an adoption before and the A.parents have followed through on it all.
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