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What this b-mom is asking for feels more like co-parenting than adoption. I would run like the wind! Unless she is a person whos morals and values and lifestyle reflect your own, it CAN NOT work. And then you will be guilty of breaking your commitment. Not a good way to start a little guys life. My feeling, as an adoptee, is that this b-mom wants her cake and eat it too. You, raise, pay for, lose sleep over the child, and she gets all these visits. This situation usually includes child support and they call it divorce. yikes. Love, debi
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