Thanks, Quantum!
It does take time to process everything, and I'm glad that R waited for awhile to bring in other family members. It gave me time to work through some of my issues... most importantly, the anger and guilt issues that quickly came to the surface in the beginning.
I am motivated to deal with my issues, so that I am able to live in the present ... which is where it seems that R and his afamily currently reside...
Feel free to invite me to the beach house next time you're stateside.
Peace,
Susan
