Thank you very much for your replies and advice. I can't believe how much I need other people's help these days..something I hardly ever do. I'm usually the tuff one!
I do believe God has a child for us and we also like to help people in need..we'd like to help this birthmom as well and feel that maybe God send her our way to help....
We have to feel good about it though. You're right about that.
Thanks again