We are adoptive parents that have been speaking to a birthmom who wants an open adoption. She wants frequent visits- to where she lives. We're concerned bc of the birthmother's past and trouble she's in now, the people she's involved with, and more. She won't budge on anything part of the agreement. Please know that we know how lucky we are that she even chose us and that we were called to begin with! We often think that we could get this wonderful child and we'll deal with the rest but I guess the worry is getting to me as I visualize taking a child on these visits.
Thanks for reading!
Any advice?
