Just a quick update - I spoke to T over the weekend and we got everything out in the open. We talked for over an hour, and I'm glad we did. She understood my perspective, and I understood hers, and our relationship is back on solid footing again. It really wasn't as big a deal as I had made it out to be, but often it's all in perspective. Thanks again for all your supportive comments, and the swift kicks in the rear as well, which I obviously needed
