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Rainmon, with my Bsis, it is kind of hard to say. We haven't really had a lot of communication over the past year an a half. In what few emails we have exchanged, she has said she feels a connection, wants to get to know me, always wanted a sister, and wants to talk to me on the phone. However, she has never asked for pictures, never really asked any questions about me, never really talked with our dad about me, never called, or asked me to call her. I'm kind of under the impression that a relationship with me isn't one of her priorities at the moment. I'm cool with that, but you are right about the fact that a person can just take sooo much rejection before you say enough. The question is: where is the line of enough
Have fun on your trip and good luck with everything. I really admire you for all you are doing to help your husband and BD. Your perspective on all of this has helped me as well. Some of my Bcousins, on Bdad's side, do that photo thing Cathy mentioned, and send it to me. I love it. I can look when I want and save it for another time if I'm feeling out of sorts. Again, good luck on the trip.
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