[Jackiejdajda]

I placed my son 19 years ago and he found me 3 weeks ago.

Key here is he found you so he wants contact.. I waited till my bson wanted to contact me..

Ive spent time with him 3 times, and speak to him a few times a week. But, I make all of the contact. Am I bugging him, do I stop?

He may be going into some emotions that are difficult..
I say give him all the time he needs.. and maybe wait till he contacts you..
Give him space.. and give yourself time to digest all this..

I don't want to intrude but I let go once...I cant do it again.

Reunion is about patience.. Its about emotions that are going every which way..

I say, we do our part to make the relationship succeed. We do whatever contacting we feel we need to do so that if the relationship fails, it wont be for lack of us trying...we can have some peace about that.

And we got the rest of our lives to sort this..

Jackie