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Originally Posted by StarryNights™
UGH! This brings back to mind my being constantly told look what would have happened to you had we not taken you in? <coming from my amom. This comes up almost every time when she learns something bad about bdad or bmom. I have gotten to the point where I don't tell her much of anything anymore due to that line of reasoning.
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I'm sorry your adoptive mother reacted in such a childish way to your birth parents' shortcomings--which we all have. Was she expecting them to be perfect? It's funny, birth parents seem to be insecure about what their child's adoptive parents must be like, and adoptive parents seem equally insecure about what the birth parents must be like, forgetting that everyone is only human (but also incredible in their own way)!