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Oh, and to answer that last little question about adopting. Would I consider one day adopting? To be honest, I don't know. I would like to.
But I would only do it if:
- I knew exactly where the child came from
-I knew who the parents were, even if it was just pictures
-I had specific contact information from the birth family
and, the most important part, only if the birth family would want to see the kid again. As an adult adoptee, I don't think I could handle parenting an adoptee who's birth family didn't want to see their kid again. It'd be too painful for me.
And if I were to adopt, I would be more than willing to let the kid venture out and find their birth family. If the kid wanted to do that, I would do everything in my power to make it happen.
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