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Hi Keds, just want to add one thing. Before you get really upset because he seams so calm and collected, just remember, he is a MAN. Men are men are men. They don't talk about their feelings, they don't show their emotions, they don't cry unless they break a bone, and they don't care about a lot of stuff we women care about. Just remember, he may have lots of feelings, but as most men are, he is probably confused and frustrated about how to show those feelings, or maybe he is scared to show them because he doesn't want to upset his aparents. Adoptees go through a lot, regardless if they admit it or not. So don't get upset because he is not calling you all the time. I understand your need to feel loved, but in a way, we did, give that away. It was our sacrifice, we chose them over us, regardless of what our situation was, we signed the papers, we made that choice. I hate saying it, or thinking it. I hate admitting that I did that, but I did, and now, I will just love any bit of anything I get from my son, and live for the moment. So what if you have to call him, at least he answers the phone! He will get there, give him time. xxxx Big Hugs.
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