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Sorry I didn't mean to CALL anyone petty, I should have used another wording. What I MEANT to say was that I don't think the reasoning to see something is just because you had to give yours. I guess I didn't realize that health information is so important to the emom of the aparents, barring any life threatening / mental disease. Maybe that's because the health information (again, barring any life threatening / mental information) for me with a bmom wasn't important either.
Tara - I can totally understand seeing the questions of a homestudy like that!! I think that is GREAT that they allow you to see that. I honestly don't see the point in some of the questions they ask either, but I guess I do understand to a point why they ask them. I think it would be neat to see a bmoms questions answered about open adoption / history / etc also...just to be sure you are on the same page. I only got medical history and a short "why are you placing / dreams for your child" type thing (which I do cherish).
Again, I'm sorry I offended anyone, didn't meant it that way but realize it did come off that way.
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